How (Not) To Be Charismatic

I had an epiphany.  Charismatic people ultimately want other people to like them.  Charismatic people, in theory, will have have better paying jobs and more friends.  I am, lets face it, not going back to the job market in any traditional sense.  I mean, I write because I can do it alone, on a sofa, in slippers, whilst eating Skinnypop.